Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Three take aways from today's blog

BRRRRRRRRRR we are in feels like temps of upper teens here (I know not bad compared to up north)


1. We have made it to Little Rock, Arkansas and been here a week. In that week James has had 2 days off for snow/ice and the rest have been delayed starts.... Welcome to winter

This was the day after we pulled in and a pic of the house we are staying at

2. Hadley's potty training has taken a turn for the worse ugh and it started before we came to little rock so it's not that (even though it's not helping). I won't go into crazy details but just wanted to document it's not all rainbows here. At least we have had several days to try and reinstate some kind of training while we are stuck inside.

from a couple days ago
3. Tantrums galore = Hadley since age 1.5 to now.... but they've gotten worse. She wants something and I say no and it's a meltdown for 10 minutes. It doesn't help that we are stir crazy in the house. We are planning activities for when we can drive safely on the roads like library time, zoos, museums and more. I'm reading the Mom's On Call Toddler book now to give us some new insights on how to better parent Hadley. She definitely is a tough cookie but she's cute.


Today Show, Maddie, Hadley, and a fire = snow days
                                          
isn't she the cutest! we had to buy her a new hat (and they are NOT easy to come by since everyone has "spring" stuff out


Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Guess who bought a house......

WE DID WE DID! and TODAY is closing day! Surprise :) So it's been a crazy last couple weeks. I can't remember if I told the blog world that we decided to stay in the northern ATL area where my family is! We are heading to Little Rock for training coming up next week and originally we weren't going to start looking at houses until like a month before we'd head back here..... It's an 8 hour drive and I love house hunting sooooo we ultimately decided that we wanted to pick out our own house in person. We originally were going to have a late closing date but then again decided if we could close super fast that would help us get a good deal.
They actually added windows to the garage doors so it looks even better! (I just forgot to snap a picture) 
backyard (that cement slab is where our back door is)
Our TWO biggest requirements were 1. to be within a 10 minute drive of my sister and 2. to be able to rent out the house after we move. We really want to get into owning a couple properties down the road so we needed to have the option to lease the house out be in the HOA restrictions. We actually found a really nice house that was 15 min away (so again a tad outside of my requirement) but it was next to a park and grocery store, so I let it slide. We were told we could rent it out and put an offer in that was eventually negotiated and accepted at a price we wanted.... until we got a copy of the HOA deeds. They did not allow leasing as per a new amendment so we unfortunately had to pull our offer.

Master bedroom with nice ceilings
part of the master closet
We went house hunting one weekend and the house we are buying was in the first neighborhood we saw (there were 3 for sale). I liked it when I first saw it but their HOA fees were very high for nothing. They don't have a pool or anything so I was like nope, not doing it. Well fast forward a week or so and we kept running into problems with HOA's letting us rent houses out (which I get.... I mean as an owner I wouldn't want a lot of renters in a neighborhood.... but as an investor it was key). In GA, finding a good neighborhood WITHOUT an HOA is impossible and I really do like the enforcement of rules. So we decided to revisit the idea of a couple houses we previously saw because the inventory was not out there and if we waited til closer to May we wouldn't be getting deals. Spring is when buyers come out.

upstairs loft looking into front bedroom
James and I decided since the house I really liked (that we first saw) allowed renters we were going to go see it again to give it another chance. It just so happened to be a 4 minute drive to my mom/sisters house so CHECK and we can rent so DOUBLE CHECK. It also FEELS brand new.... It was built in 2011/2012ish (there are discrepancies on papers). It backs up to a private road where there is a water treatment plant further down, but that means no houses can be in our back yard. We have ONE direct neighbor fairly close to us on the right but none on the left.... for now or at least until 2017 (when they're supposed to start building next to us). The reason there were so many houses for sale on the small street is because they started this neighborhood back in 2011 and then the market crashed..... they couldn't sell the houses so the builder started a company to rent the houses out. Now everyones leases are up and they are making them sell them all. They gave renters the option to buy first then they put them out to the public. The ones on our side of the street were all renovated and upgraded (mostly). Ours was the last to be done and is vacant so we start to finish did this in about 2 weeks. They put brand new carpets in (exactly the ones I would have picked) and granite counter tops (exactly the ones I would have picked), new paint (a generic beige), and installed some double crown molding to the kitchen.
kitchen!

Kitchen looking towards the living room/ front hallway... nice and open!
My favorite part of this house is that the stairs are hidden behind the kitchen. It's just so unique! They unfortunately left linoleum floors in the nice new kitchen and all the bathrooms..... I would have also ideally liked to put hardwood in most of the downstairs..... but beggars can't be choosers. Our master closet is GINORMOUS, it's like a walk in turn left and walk down.... It's a good thing because the house does lack storage. It's a two floor house (as most are here in GA). This will be our first house with STAIRS and a MAILBOX!! It was the first thing I checked! I know that sounds silly but seriously, every house or apartment we've stayed at from the 7 years we've been married had the metal box community mailboxes that were like half a block away or down the street. Although, it did get me out to exercise.... but this will be so much more convenient.

upstairs loft area looking into the laundry room and guest bathroom
There are a couple other things I'd like different about the house like it has no front porch (I happen to have an overabundance of outdoor furniture), the island in the kitchen needs to be double the size, it's missing a fireplace (yes I want one put in), and it needs a fence but James keeps telling me, "this isn't our forever home" it's to get us through a couple years then we can work on getting something a little more specific. It's a great home with taller SMOOTH (I emphasize that because man that was tough to come by) ceilings. It will make the perfect rental house plus it has 4 bedrooms with an upstairs loft area (that will most likely be an office/playroom).

They didn't have photos listed for the actual MLS because they were renovating it. Some more details are that it's a 4 bedroom 3 full bath house (with one of the bedrooms being downstairs with a full bath). It's 2138 sq. feet. We are basically moving stuff into the house, installing an alarm system, and peacing out. It's very anticlimactic but what can ya do.

front door area- forgot that was a requirement, can't open door right to living room, so CHECK

hidden stairs are straight to left (by the pantry door) cool huh?
The sellers told us that they plan on starting phase 2 very soon (on the opposite end not next to us) where they will be building a pool and tennis courts/playground... woohooo! So they have big plans for the neighborhood and I'm glad we get to see how it develops! OH and the neighbors to our right have two small kids with fun play stuff in their backyard! It's been very hard keeping Hadley off them as we visit.

Happy Valentine's Day to us :)


Monday, February 2, 2015

Hadley's potty training adventure.....

Happy Groundhog's Day!!

Well we decided that we were going to potty train Hadley sorta spur of the moment. We knew she had expressed interest for a WHILE but we had several road trips coming up so we were going to put it on hold.... Then one day I was like, nope we're doing it. So we quickly read a couple "potty train in 3 days" articles and started right up. I thought it was going to be more easier than hard but turns out I have no patience for my own kid when it comes to potty training. She used to LOVE going on the potty for fun and the day we started because we kept taking her like every 20 minutes, she started hating it. Hadley would scream about going in there  and it just wasn't fun. She had a couple accidents the first days and had no problem pooping in her undies. She wasn't telling us she had to go (probably because we didn't give her a chance to) and by the close of day 3, (contrary to what all these blogs/articles said) she was NOT potty trained. I think it finally CLICKED Day 4/5 but then she still had an accident or two after those days. We've been helicopter parenting her (hovering) non-stop and it's nice to finally relax a bit.

Today marks the TWO week mark and she tells us she has to go potty! We've even ventured out and to places and she's been GREAT. I seriously was ready to give up DAILY, so thanks to my mom and James for their encouragement to keep going haha. It takes a village people! She is very excited about big girl undies and we just got some new GIRL superhero ones! and don't get discouraged if it takes your kid longer, stick with it! We tried sticker rewards, m&m's, gummy bunnies (her favorite), and ultimately she really didn't give a rip about any of it.


Quotes of this potty training that we now can joke about that I've said COUNTLESS times

"James, she's going to poop her pants!"
"Are your undies dry?"
"Keep those undies dry"
"Do you have to go potty"

 So overall, the experience wasn't fun but I'm glad we stuck with it. We still diaper her at nap (but she's been mostly dry for days now) and at night. She got RASHES from IDK what. She barely got any from diapers so it was mysterious. It was like the cotton undies were rubbing on her skin.... she also got marks from sitting on the toilet so much (seriously..... oops).


and can't end a blog without a picture of my cutie POTTY TRAINED 2 year old! (2 years 2 month old) with her huge bow from auntie Jen